Tuesday, November 1, 2011

First Halloween



Knowing Elsie was only going to be 3 months, I had a hard time trying to decide if it was worth spending money on a costume. However, while discussing with a friend who lives far away I decided I probably should invest in a costume just for memories sake. While looking for a costume, I found this adorable photo and knew that is exactly what Elsie would be doing for her Halloween photo this year.

How cute is that? And Elsie is a total thumb sucker, she could so do this! I was ecstatic. I also knew that our annual pumpkin carve is at night, so I didn't want her to freeze. I bought a cute pumpkin onesie that I thought would just add to the whole feel of the photo. Look how cute she is in it. Just adorable. I made the flower on her head that I felt just added to the whole cuteness factor.
Cutest pumpkin ever!


Now all I had to do was get her in the pumpkin. Great hopes with great intentions. Sadly, they were a little high. This is the photo I got...

And this wasn't after sitting in the pumpkin for a while. It was instantaneous! She HATED the pumpkin. Oh my, apparently it can be quite traumatizing. We tried to take her out and try again... nope didn't work either. Once she was out of the pumpkin, life was ok. In the pumpkin, life is miserable! However, I don't really want to sit in a pumpkin either, so can you blame her? However she is still adorable and the cutest pumpkin ever.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Parenting Lessons Learned


So know that we have six weeks under our belt, here are some crucial lessons we've learned from the boss (some easier than others...)


Elsie definitely is the boss around our house now.

1. Always remember the diaper bag, it will add 15 minutes to your trip if you forget it and have to return for it.
2. Pack change of clothes for mommy in diaper bag as well, sometimes babies use their mom as the diaper.
3. It is possible to survive on 4 hours of sleep. (Very surprising to me!)
4. Nothing can take the place of cuddle time with the little girl. I love it when she sleeps on me
5. Sometimes all you need is to hear mom and dad's voice to calm down.
6. Once that second yawn is released it is time to take a nap, don't wait for that 3rd yawn. No one sleeps then.
7. The bouncer is a lifesaver at all hours!
8. Never plan on getting anywhere on time. I always was late before, now I am REALLY late!
9. A smile can make everything better. No matter how hard the day or night was, one little smile from Elsie makes everything go away!

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Elsie 1 week photo shoot

We had a lady come to the house and take these. Elsie was quite cooperative and surprisingly didn't sleep through most of it like we had planned. She's quite the little model!










Friday, August 19, 2011

Hospital stay


We stayed in the hospital till Saturday afternoon. Luckily we had lots of visitors at the hospital to keep us company, and we loved every minute of it! (We didn't remember to take a picture of everyone who stopped by, so these are just a few)
Elsie catching some sun

He's one proud dad!

Mindy never smiles for cameras like this, she is so glad to be an aunt again!

Katie was our first visitor after Elsie was born, she stopped by on her way to work. Thanks Aunt Katie!

Aunt Tray bo came every day too, brought cupcakes and food for us. Elsie was grateful for Tray as she always made sure Elsie had a bow on her head.
Grandma and Grandpa Curtis came every day. We loved seeing both of them!
Grandma and Grandpa Barney came Thursday and Friday all the way from Pima! Uncle Brian and Aunt Jenny and cousin Gabe came from Flagstaff. Aunt Cami , Uncle Garrett and cousins also came Thursday all the way from Pima. Talk about making us feel loved!
Casie, Natalie and Justin came and saw us too. Natalie even brought Elsie her first birthday cupcake! It was the talk of the nurses the whole time we were there!
Grandma was there through the whole process. She also would come anytime we needed her. Grandparents are the best!

The big day!

Labor for me was definitely not the typical experience of having the labor pains start, go to the hospital, wait 12 or more hours and baby arrives. No, mine came quick and hard but was so worth it!

Day at a glance:

Wednesday, July 20

2:20 Dr Appointment - induction scheduled for tomorrow morning at 9am

2:40 Dr strips membranes (40% chance to induce labor)

3:00 Labor pains start - Not sure if they were really labor pains as it never stopped, just got worse and lessened, but never left completely

4:00 Pains continue to get worse. I rest while Jeff cleans the house in preparation of the new arrival coming tomorrow. We decide to do dinner and a movie, if pain continue to get worse we will go to hospital after the late movie

5:30 Hospital calls asking us to come down now as they have room now (huge blessing!)

7:00 Arrive at the hospital, can no longer sit comfortably, stand comfortably, or do anything comfortably. Pain doesn't stop ever!

7:15 Because we were a scheduled induction, our room was ready for us. The nurse hooks me up to machines and within 10 minutes I am getting medicine to slow down contractions. (Doesn't work) Nurse never leaves my side, thanks to the contractions never stopping.

9:15 Epidural starts to get placed, takes her 40 minutes to get the epidural in thanks to the contractions.

10:00 I am one happy girl! Epidural is working great! I am on cloud 9 because the pain is finally gone. I can think again!

11:15 Dr walks in, ready to get the baby out.

11:40 Start pushing, baby doesn't respond well. A whole crew of people start trickling in. Nurses everywhere it feels like, 4 nurses by the door, a nurse practitioner waiting for the baby, 2 nurses by my side, and the doctor. Again, I thought this was normal, apparently it isn't.

11:53 Elizabeth Ann Barney is born thanks to Dr Beck's skilled hands with a vacuum and forceps. Amazingly enough she had a perfectly round head, no conehead at all, which is amazing with all the equipment used to get her our quick. She decided to come out with the umbilical chord wrapped around her neck or jewelry on her neck as Jeff likes to say. That explained why her heart rate would drop every time I pushed.

After the birth I learned how scary the process actually was. The nurse didn't leave my side because her heart rate kept fluctuating (140 down to low 50's) and the OR was prepped and ready to go because of the heart rate. Luckily my skilled doctor was able to get Elsie out quick. Turns out Jeff knew the whole time the process was intense, glories of having an RN for a husband. The people taking care of me did a great job of keeping it on the DL which I am so
grateful for!

Aunt Katie commented on how she is definitely my daughter, will always make the deadline but finishes at the last moment possible, which is so true. No messing around, when it was time to come she came and made it right on time!

Happy Birthday Elizabeth Ann! 8lbs 6 oz, 20. 5 inches. Absolutely perfect!







Maternity Photos


Jeff and I got together with Kendyl Hawkins when I was 37 weeks in downtown Gilbert. I had no idea downtown Gilbert had so much variety in backdrops. We had fun even if it was 110˚ outside! Jeff is so not a photo type of a guy, he hates pictures and having to be in them is like pure torture. I told him he would be in "like 3 photos" knowing that there would definitely be more. After those 3 were taken, he caught on to the wife trick. Luckily he was still a good sport and the photos turned out pretty well I think!






Sunday, August 14, 2011

All Star Summer

Anyone who knows me knows that baseball is a huge part of my life. My passion for the sport started in junior high and continues to grow to this day. With the All Star game at Chase Field (BOB), I was ecstatic! Finally, an opportunity to go to the Home Run Derby. An even more exciting opportunity showed up during one of the games Jeff and I went to earlier in the season. The All Star Fan Fest needed volunteers! Yes please! I put in a request, knowing it was a long shot, but wanted to try anyways. There were over 4,000 people that had expressed interest, but only 1,800 would be needed that weekend. Being 38 weeks pregnant that week, I thought the likeliness was even more slim. Towards the middle of June, I got THE letter! I had been accepted to volunteer!! I was thrilled. I was able to work 2 - 5 hour shifts, and have the opportunity to go the following year if I wanted to travel to Kansas City (we will let Elsie decide that). It was a dream come true to work it, even being 38 weeks pregnant! I loved every minute of it.
I was assigned to work the Waiver station (having parents sign permission slips) the first day and the Hall of Fame booth the second day. So fun all the way around!

Friday, August 12, 2011

Our first year


I love being married to Jeff! I knew I always wanted to be married, but never knew I could love it as much as I do. Our first year has been nothing short of amazing. When looking back, we realized almost each month had a fun adventure we did together. We definitely love the newlywed life! Here is our year in review:

June 2010
On June 25, we were sealed for eternity to each other! Definitely the happiest day of our lives (up to that point). Here are some of our favorite photos:

I loved my pink shoes!

Before Jeff saw me for the first time. Talk about one exciting walk!

I love this man more every day! So glad I get to keep him for eternity!

July 2010
Our Alaskan honeymoon was definitely the highlight of this month. We definitely stuck out like a sore thumb compared to all the white-haired retirees, but it was wonderful! We were able to escape the heat and just enjoy each others company. We did the inside passage cruise, meaning we were on a smaller boat but could go through the narrow passages to get to Haines, Ketchikan and Juneau. From the train ride to the coast to the cruise itself to the plane ride through Ketchikan to the ride up the mountain in Juneau, it was seriously completely amazing the entire time!

Our Boat! Loved every minute of it, especially with the upgraded room (which included a full ocean view window!)
Us in Haines, AK. It rained and was freezing! Such a nice change from the AZ heat!
Formal night
The plane ride stopped in the middle of a lake and allowed us to get out and stand on the legs. The views were breathtaking!

August 2010

Both Jeff and I returned to work late July :( Reality had to hit sometime. Jeff worked in Safford 6 days than was home 8 days. I thought I was aware of how miserable it would be without a husband for a few days, I wasn't even close! Neither was Jeff. The first night back Jeff started job hunting, but in the nursing field that's not always an easy venture. Luckily I don't work weekends, so I would travel up on Friday night and drive home Sunday night. Definitely made the 6 days more bearable as we were only away from each other for 3 days. It was during these trips that I learned to love Pima. My mom always said I was a small town girl born in the city. I think she may be right. I love the feel, the attitude and closeness the small town brings.

September 2010

After only 3 weeks of searching, Jeff got a new job!! We found out mid August, and he started the first week in September. Not only was Jeff now working in town, but he was also starting in a day position! This was a huge blessing and answer to our prayers. He is now working on the Neuro-Surg floor at Banner Good Sam in downtown Phoenix! No more bi-monthly trips to Pima, even though we miss seeing his family as much as we used to, it is so much nicer having Jeff work here!


October 2010

A couple adventures happened this month. One Saturday morning, Jeff woke me up around 4 am, all bright eyed and bushy tailed. He turns the light on and says it's time to go, he has a surprise waiting and we need to get going. I had no idea what was going on, and after some serious coaxing I finally got out of bed (luckily he knew it would take me 30 minutes to get out of bed, and an additional 20 minutes to get ready) and we left. I still had no clue where we were headed. After about an hour drive, and following the van we were eventually going to get it, we made it to our destination. Jeff planned a sunrise hot air balloon ride! It was breathtaking! Following the ride, we had breakfast waiting for us. It was such an amazing morning, well worth the 4 am wake up call!






We also hit up Las Vegas this month. I had a week off from school, and with Jeff working 3 - 12 hour shifts, we decided to head up to Jeff's mission and explore for a few days. We walked around the strip, did some shopping, and really enjoyed each others company. We also did a quick day trip to LA for a funeral for my great grandpa. Luckily Jeff and I got to visit him in early September, and we knew this was coming. His claim to fame was being 3 days younger than the state of Arizona. He lived a long life (98 years old!). It was fun to see family, wish it was under different circumstances, but nice nonetheless.

November

We had our first family addition this month! For one of my birthday gifts, Jeff did some research and found a puppy for us! I came home from work one Friday afternoon with Jeff awaiting my arrival in the garage. I normally get greeted shortly after entering, but rarely in the garage. I knew something was up. He asked if I wanted one of my birthday gifts a couple weeks early, of course I said yes. He handed me a bag and inside was a little fur ball we have hence named "Sparky." Knowing him, the name fits perfect. He is definitely a bundle of energy, but we love him.

He loves to be in the car!
And this is why we have know put a lid on the trash can...
Who can resist this face? I sure can't and he knows it!

December
Our first holidays were this month! With both our birthdays at the end of the year, and us meeting at the very beginning of the year, we never spent any holidays together. Not only did we celebrate Jeff's birthday, but also Christmas with both families. I have spent 27 years, and was a little worried about leaving my family on Christmas day after our festivities. I even warned Jeff it could be a very long 2+ hour ride to Pima. However, I loved every minute of it. I did miss my family, definitely different to not be there the whole day. But I loved being with Jeff and seeing his family.

January
We took a trip to Disneyland with our closest friends this month. We loved every minute of it. Jeff and I met Casie, Justin and Natalie in Anaheim and we spent Saturday and Sunday in the park. It was fun to have time together as friends at the Happiest Place on Earth.


We even got Casie to ride California Screamin' (we won't mention it cost Jeff $10 I think, but totally worth every penny!)

Never knew there was a canoe ride, we really enjoyed it. Gotta love corny jokes!

February
We found out the most exciting news this month. I took a home pregnancy test mid January and found out I was pregnant. I took 2 tests, than made Jeff go buy another pack because I didn't believe it (typical Angie). We then took 2 more tests and I still had doubts. The OB wouldn't see us till beginning of February when we were farther along. At the appointment we found out we were already into the second trimester, not just the beginning of the first. Oops! (Probably shouldn't have gone to Disneyland) So instead of being 9 weeks along, we were already 15. Happy day! Luckily we only had to wait four more weeks to find out we were having a girl! Yay! Jeff predicted it was a girl at our first appointment, I also felt like we were having a girl, so when Dr. Beck said "It's a Girl!" we were quite ecstatic! Bring on the pink!


March
Knowing we were due to have a girl towards the end of July, we knew we would be limited in travel come summertime when I have off. We decided to use spring break as one of our final trips before the baby came. We drove up Highway One to San Francisco and spent a few days. It was a great trip! We did a session in the Oakland Temple, visited Alcatraz in the pouring rain (definitely helped to set the mood), ate lunch at Fenton's, and really just enjoyed each other's company. We were so efficient we were able to cut our trip short to be able to see Katie in the hospital before Johnny was born! Katie and Jason had their first, Johnathon Richard Dial, on the morning of the 20th. I was definitely grateful Katie went through it first, allowed me to get lots of tips and advice in pregnancy and being a mom!

We stopped at a strawberry stand on the way up. These strawberries were HUGE!
Alcatraz in the rain, freezing but totally added to the experience!
A Fenton's Black and Tan! Life does not get any better than this!
The Oakland Temple is now one of our favorites!


One proud Aunt!
(Underneath Johnny there's my five month baby bump!)
Johnathon Richard Dial - March 20, 2011

April

To teacher's April is the dreaded month. AIMS is here and we hope and pray our students do well. Stress level is definitely at its highest. To Jeff, it was nursery time. He was determined to get the nursery completed this month. To those that know Jeff, it is literally all or nothing. I either get his complete and total focus on a project, or none at all. Luckily I am pretty easy going and quite the procrastinator so it really works out well. To this day, I am still not sure why he choose April, 2 weeks before the AIMS test when my stress level is already at its peak, to focus hard on the nursery. We went through 2 weeks of looking for furniture, finding bedding, looking for decorations before Jeff finally felt he did enough. The nursery looks amazing thanks to him and was completed well in advance :)
(Sorry I don't have photos of the completed nursery, need to get on that)

Sparky was a helper...




May

Science Camp happened at the beginning of the month. With Jeff being a nurse, he was able to go with us and play nurse with the sixth graders. It was definitely an eye opener for him. From the frequent dehydration episodes that have never happened in years past, to the constant need for band aids, to the rush of medications needed it made for a busy day! I loved having Jeff there and hopefully he liked it as well.

This was also my last month in sixth grade. I have taught sixth grade in the same classroom since I graduated from ASU in 2006. It was bitter sweet to pack up my classroom knowing I wouldn't be back to it next year. A part time position opened up in fifth grade, allowing me to be home with the baby Monday and Tuesday and every other Wednesday. With Jeff's schedule he was able to work it so he could be home on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. I was so grateful for this option as it allows me to stay at home with the baby and keep a foot in the door with teaching. Such a blessing!

June
We've know been married for a year! The year, as you can see, was full of excitement and fun around every corner. It was definitely the best year of my life. We had one more trip we went on this year. At 34 weeks pregnant, Jeff and I jumped in the car and made the 12 hour drive to Salt Lake City, UT. We wanted to do a session in the Salt Lake Temple before we had kids so we wouldn't have to worry about child care. We drove up and spent the evening with my cousins and then spent the next day at the temple. It was a great experience to be in the temple that has so much history. We loved every minute. We also went through Park City, found I don't do so hot with elevation changes and a baby inside. So we only stayed a few hours and quickly went back down to Provo to stay with my Aunt Nancy. The next day we drove back home. Definitely a quick trip, but so much fun!



So with one year under our belt, we are excited to start year 2! I never knew I could love someone as much as I love Jeff. Each day that love and appreciation grows more and more. I love being married to my best friend and look forward to all the new memories to come! With a new addition in the family there are sure to be lots more milestones and adventures lurking around every corner! We look forward to it all.